To Give or To Receive, which do you prefer?

So many people I come across still get hung up on conversing with their 30DCP*, you would think by now the challenge alone would have you talking just a tad bit more.  Oral sex is still something so many of you choose not to express your inner thoughts: I don't like ______, I only like ______, it's great when she does _____. The crazy thing is, is that it's only gonna get better when you talk about it.

Him - "Well, I thought you thought it was nasty"

Her - "Really?!?! Good Lord you really need to get to know me, Ummm why would you think that?"

Him - "Cause you never do it!"

Her - "but you never give me a chance"

Him - "O'ummm, yeah, we can change that"

Studies have shown that many people (mainly men) like to give rather than receive.  I've found that it's arousing for myself to see you twitch around as I pull you closer and closer to your breaking/screaming point.  Call it control if you like, it has a lot to do with power as well, I think. Just having the ability to see your body convulse uncontrollably is a wonderful thing, and also knowing that for the rest of the day You'll Be Thinking About IT! Yeah, that's my MAIN OBJECTIVE! So what's going on out there world? To Give or To Receive, which do you prefer? 

Until later,

* 30DCP, if you're unfamiliar with the term refer to post 7/21/12 & 8/14/12. 

Happy Hump Day

Canada has entered the building!  Welcome Canada :)

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Yes it's an old spot (that won a gold CLIO for Viral Marketing and a silver CLIO for Animation in 09') but I still love it! I'll track down the outtakes on a later date, just wanting to wish everyone a Happy Hump Day!

Until later,

...allow your pheromones to do all the talking!

India is in the HOUSE! Welcome India :)

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?Seriously...having ADHD and writing a blog doesn't always work.  So I wanted to dish about cuddling and have found like 8 different directions I wanna go, then I keep getting text comments (?seriously people - Post It On The Blooooog, please), while constantly having flashbacks (I love flashbacks) of CUDDLING.  I LOVE TO CUDDLE, among other things.  But for real - you get to be all close and personal (I'm really thankful for my sense of smell) and your pheromone start dancing around and getting all happy with one another and your insides get that safe/YeeeeeeeeS, I'm GoNnA gEt It (or I JUST GOT IT) feeling and you're either gonna sleep real REAL good or knock a few out of the park OR both! I'm Just Saying - when you cuddle all kind of stuff starts to flowing and popping off, ultimately ending with GREAT FUCKING SLEEP! And I don't know about you but good sleep is priceless!  Sooooo what style of cuddling do you prefer? Although the hair is straight jacked afterwards - I love the close intertwining of the limbs, and prefer the warmth of the inner thigh, with the finger tips massaging the scalp (the sound that makes can be sooooo relaxing).

O' and I originally wanted to let you know that the peeps at the Kinsey Institute did this study and found that men in long term relationships were happiest when they cuddled the most. Ladies let your 30DCP pull you in for the cuddle, that way you know they really want it!  There's nothing wrong with requesting a cuddle break/nap time either.  It's a great way to unwind from a busy day - play the quiet game (1,2,3) and allow your pheromones to do all the talking!

Until later,

kiss them until the honey is gone

Kissing is so intimate, it can be the gateway to many pleasurable moments if and when done correctly. When was the last time you were kissed and it actually took your breath away? Most of the time we get away from the very thing that attracted us to our partner. When was the last time you gave a kiss and was asked to "do it again please" before you left?  This is the type of kissing that should be obtained, the kind that has you craving your 30DCP. I read that if you kiss for a minute you can burn 26 calories, and that men who kiss their spouse live longer and happier.  Kissing can also help a women reach her orgasm faster while also increasing the blood flow to a mans penis, smile, which we both know gives a harder and stronger erection.  So I say why not kiss your honey when and wherever you get a chance?

Touching while kissing is always an added bonus as well.  If you don't believe me, try it.  Try kissing for a while and then grab your 30DCP and pull them closer to you...as if you couldn't breath if their lips weren't touching your lips. I liked the comment from an earlier post about the goodness of honey (thanks Steevn) and it made me think of a Honey game.  Try pouring honey on your partners lips (you pick a set...or maybe both if time permits) and kiss them until the honey is gone or until your partner begs you for more.  Let's get back to kissing and see how many calories we can burn.

Until later,

...how do you like your eggs?

Poached, scrambled, boiled or fried?  The way you prefer your eggs opens secrets about your sex drive and personality traits a British study has claimed.  After quizzing 1,010 adults the study found the following:

La Cala Bar - Barcelona, Spain

Poached: You're outgoing and likely to be happier than most.

Scrambled: You tend to be guarded people.  Favored by those without children.

Boiled: You tend to be disorganized and run the greatest risk of getting divorced.

Fried: You have a higher sex drive and are usually from the skilled working class. 

As a bonus: Omelet eaters are self-disciplined.

To me, it brings a new thought to asking how do you like your eggs?

Until later,

- Special thanks to Andrew Joret and the BEIC (British Egg Industry Council).

...What Turns You On?

Not sure if you've noticed but you may be a little closer to your 30DCP... when you participate in anything time and time again you get a little closer to the person you thought you already knew.  So what's changed?  Have you found things that you didn't really know before?  Like that you're ticklish behind your left knee or that hands around your throat may now be something that's a turn on? Discuss with your 30DCP your turn ons, maybe you have new ones that turn you on in different situations.  And don't forget to praise your 30DCP, let them know what you like and how you liked it!  And if you have any you care to share with the group I encourage you to post away - Soooooooooooo What Turns You On?

Until later,