You love me...

It's amazing the little things that make me smile - over the American holiday season of Thanksgiving I was notified that Turkey (of all places) has dropped by a few times to check out the blog. WOW -THANKS & WELCOME Turkey! Please feel free to post your thoughts.

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My dedication to start the week.

"You love me especial-ly different every time
You keep me on my feet happily excited
By your cologne, your hands, your smile, your intelligence
You woo me, you court me, you tease me, you please me
You school me, Give me some things to think about
Ignite me, you invite me, you co-write me,
you love me, you like me
You incite me to chorus, ooooooh Oh..."
- Jill Scott: He Loves Me

I love this song and the energy it ignites! There is something so amazing about the feeling that love captures when you truelly allow yourself to be caught!  A special thanks to the many of you not afraid to share your true self.  Keep up the good work, others are watching, and maybe one day they'll feel free enough to join (smile).

Until later,

The Art Of Oral Sex

Poland, Sweden, Russia, China are all in the HOUSE!! Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome! Ummm are y'all having sex over there? Maybe you could chime in and help others - Thanks for checking out the blog, feel free to share your thoughts and views!

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You can read this and every blog, news article, and how-to book you come across but when it comes to oral sex - you'll only be as good as you think you are. Confidence plays a huge role! If you don't believe in yourself and what you're doing --- how in the hell do you think your partner is gonna feel? Seriously?!? 

Know that what once worked --- maaaaaaay not work anymore, so you may have to Change It Up! Surprise your 30DCP with a move that could win you the AVN Award of exceptional performance in a live scene!  Turning the body and changing positions often can really keep you and your partner guessing as to what's gonna come next...more heightened stimulation?, or the ultimate goal of having your partner explode right before your eyes?  I mean HEY?, you did it when the relationship was new, why not change it up and keep your partner on the edge of their seat just wondering if they'll be able to keep their voice down and not wake the neighbors (or the kids) as you explore every ounce of them.  

The Art of Oral Sex is up to you... pay more attention to what and how your partner responds and keeping it up to keep them happy! 30DCPartners Stop Faking PLEASE... everyone knows the fake porn screams can be an instant dick shrinker! Handle them as if you were trying out to be the ONLY PERSON to please them, and I bet you'll have a award winning escapade to flash back on down the road. 

Until later,

Sexy lingerie...fucking empty box

First we have to welcome France, Welcome :) and thanks for visiting.

I'm on the line and can't help but blog about a statement.  The topic is sex, duh, and the guy is telling me his girl has drawers and drawers of lingerie and would get upset because... well this is how it goes:

Him: Yeah, my girl has a shit load of that [lingerie] mess!
Me: What?, you don't like it?
Him: Shit ----- I mean, I did, at one point ----- when I thought It meant something would go down.
Me: Wa'wa' wait a minute, sooo she has it but doesn't wear it? How dat work?
Him: Yeah she wears it but shiiiiiiiit, it's not like we gonna put each other to sleep or nothing...
Me: I'm Sorry, I'm Lost. You don't cum? You don't have to every time!
Him: Hell, I don't start! I mean, if I could at least get some head, i'd be alright!
Me: (Holding back laughter) O' so sexy lingerie is like having a nicely wrapped gift, to open it up and it's a fucking empty box?!?!? Dat's some bullshit.
Him: EXACTLY!
Me: hahahahhaha I start typing, [duh, i'm the author]
Him: Stop fucking typing! Ass!

Needless to say it's not funny, but I tend to laugh a lot, my bad. Soooo 30DCPeeps what's up with this? Why would you be a tease if you're not gonna please?  Having and giving good head can and will go a looooooooo (yes, I'm still going) oooooooong way! I'm just saying, it does!

Until later,

born sexual creatures

"We are all born sexual creatures, thank God, but it's a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift." 

- Marilyn Monroe

As I sit here doing a play by play of the several sex conversations I've had with readers I find one common denominator: just about everyone is ashamed to, or shall I say unwilling to do so freely, talk/post about sex. First I thought it was just because it's a blog, now I see that you're not even talking to the one that counts the most...your 30DCP.

So what gives?  It's not like I've started with payments, positions, propositions, and prescriptions or anything - although I'd really like to do so - but hell I feel like I have to take baby steps for a large group of people that I know are sexing somebody up (even if it's a solo act, hell you know what you like) and I might would give it a pass if you didn't use me as your Sexologist... i'm just creating a forum that we can dish about what's really going on (maybe help each other out) when you commit yourself to one person for 30 days. For you newbies its a sex diet. In hopes that you increase you heart rate, reduce the stress in your life and learn to love the person you've committed yourself to.  And if you don't have a partner maybe this can be a tool to use the next time you chose to entertain someone - are they really worth you and your time?, If you died at day 31 would it have the best last 30 days of your life?

And please don't get me started on those that have a mate but care to sex elsewhere, ummm this is for you stupid.  Love the one you're with or fucking bounce.  And stop wasting your mates time because truth be told they might would prefer someone else over yooooooooou!

Until later,