FANTASIZING = ORGASMS...so why would you be against it?

I've been told by women in their 40's that they've never had an orgasm before. Could you imagine never being taking to the NEXT LEVEL? Well, I guess if you've never been there you don't really know what you're missing.

Remember this is an open forum, with desires to inspire you and your partner to be more open and delightful with one another and your bodies.  What are some of your tricks that you'd be willing to share with fellow 30 Day Challengers?  Spill your guts and tell us what helped you achieve an explosive discharge of neuromuscular tension? What got your partner there? We have a 30 Day Challenge and we must make every experience the very best!

Personally, I enjoy the unexpected orgasm, when your partner THINKS they're in full control and it just shows up!  It makes you step back, take in a full panoramic view while catching your breath, pat yourself on the back and say "yeah, I did that!" Yeah, for me helping to erase the stress of the day with a "make you pass out before dinner is served" orgasm is pleasure enough!

Until later,

Motivation!

Mood: Sitting here bumping* T.I.'s Motivation. While also celebrating the life of Helen Gurley Brown.  

If you've never picked up an issue of Cosmopolitan I challenge you to grab one at the super market, take it home, read it, fold down pages, share with your 30 Day Challenge Partner and just see what happens.  IT'S MOTIVATION! Sometimes if you don't see it, you can't do it.  But if you start with a conversation it turns into a great segue for you and your 30DCP to knocking one out of the park!  I recently opened up a issue from June and started the conversation about "A Guys Idea of Food Porn".  Only four things were listed.  What do you think the answer is? Talk about it. Post it.  No answer is wrong.  Don't worry I'll share the four they listed.

*bumping: playing the music really loud.

Until Later,

Rules and Guidelines

short and sweet, just three

1.  only one partner at a time (I'll tell you why later).
2.  both parties have to agree to the rules, be open minded, & agree to be coachable through your 30 day process.
3.  have sex with your parter at least once a day for 30 days straight.

Know that this will not only be a test of endurance but also a test of loyalty, integrity, and authenticity.

1. one partner at a time.

In order to have loyalty & integrity you'll have to limit yourself to one person at a time.  Be committed to just one person.  This is why I wanted you to really think about who you're willing to connect with.  Regardless of your social status this is a challenge that will bring you closer together while increasing your lung capacity, your self esteem, ability to do tricks (and a plethora of other things)... you have 30 days, make it count!

2. both parties have to agree to the rules, be open minded & agree to be coachable through your 30 days.

If you've ever played a team sport you know that you're only as strong as your weakest player.  Use this time as your motivation to overcome any preconceived ideas you might have about your body and what it can and can't do...you never really know until you try.  And who said it had to be perfect (it doesn't), plus you have 30 days and practice makes perfect. 

3. have sex with your partner at least once a day for 30 days straight.

The term sex can be any mutual genital stimulation. The term also describes other sexual penetrative acts like vagina sex, anal sex, oral sex, fingering and even the use of strap-on dildos.  Sexual intercourse plays a big role in human bonding, often being solely for pleasure that often leads to a stronger emotional bond.  

Until later,

My Apologies!

So when I started this blog my desire was to create the possibility of stronger relationships. And I've allowed a few things/people to distract me.  Know and understand that as you follow the blog you can be however you want and your expression is desired so please post your comments, just don't try to stop me or redirect* me because it's not in the direction that you THINK I should be going.  If you want to go another direction, create your own blog and get your own following...but over here - I'm going to keep going in the direction I originally started.

So I've been working with my authenticity and in the past I would "redirect" to keep the peace, to keep a smile, to keep a relationship - not realizing that in the end I'm the one upset because I wasn't true to myself.  How many times do you allow that to happen to you?  How many times have you allowed things to stop you dead in your tracks and rationalize why you've made the decision to do whatever it is you're doing?  Let's stop it and get back on track.  30 Day Challenge Rules will be posted within 2 hrs.  

*Redirect: sharing your views is always allowed, when I say redirect I mean don't try to get me to change my focus on my blog because it doesn't match your standards or what some book say our standards should be - we do not all read the same book and I don't want to exclude anyone from the experience.  

Until later,