So I've been thinking about this for some time now and have finally chosen a platform to log my experience and the experience of those that care to share their experiences with me. Everyday you hear something about a new diet. It's always something that guarantees to have you thinner in a shorter amount of time than it took for you to get to the current size you are. So i'm here to propose a different twist to the diet world...how about a 30 day SEX DIET? Yes, 30 days of consecutive sex. I said it and you just read it. Say it again. Say it out loud. Seriously, say it out loud! There is nothing wrong with the word.
Ok, now that we're a little more comfortable with the word - I want you to just think about the idea. Hold your horses - I'm not saying run out and do it (although there will be rules and guidelines to the challenge), I'm saying simply think about it. Stop every ounce of energy you're using to judge, classify and/or dismiss and just think about it. Think about how good you felt when you had sex all the time? O' you never had sex all the time? Well think about how sexy your day dreams were when you day dreamed about having sex all the time. Remember how relaxed you were? Remember how big your smile was? How genuine your laughter was? How your body felt and looked? How you used more than just 10% of your lung capacity? How your coworkers knew something was up with you - because you just finished knocking one out of the park....yea THAT smile, the one you have as you're reading this!
My goal with this blog is to create the possibility of oneness with you and your loved one. To bring you back to a place where you felt safe and good about all that was around you. I want to share this idea with everyone I can and want you to share it as well. Yes, go ahead, you can share the link. I want you to invite people into the idea of having 30 days of something they can look forward to. Once we get comfortable with just having the conversation then we can move to the rules and guidelines, but for now just chill out with the idea, day dream about the possibilities of the closeness that you will create, day dream about the harmony that will live within your soul and will ooze from your pores. In a day or so I'll be back to explain the challenge but for now just notice how your body relaxed just a little... hold on to that feeling and we'll chat more later.
Until later,
I'm up for it! -Kharizma
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DeleteI think this would absolutely be great! It would be exciting to see whether or not your mood, behavior, the way you go about your regular day based on having sex on a regular day to day basis straight. But, you would have to wonder if their would be many of us up for the challenge? Some people are stuck in their regulaar routine, a couple of days out of the week and their good. And that work for them. Some people claim to not have time to do it every day, so you have to wonder who would be willing to take the plunge and try it, just to see if it effects you in a positive light. Can't wait to hear the rest:) looking forward to it.
ReplyDeleteThis sounds absolutely intriguing! I can't wait for the details.
ReplyDeleteHaaa! I can't think of anyone that I want to be bothered with for 30 days straight.
ReplyDeleteSo instead of thinking of "anyone" think of "you". See today's post "Hold Your Horses". And thanks for at least thinking about it.
DeleteThat sounds like a good idea...
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DeleteGotta love the "Life Lessons!" This sounds very interesting
ReplyDelete:) Gotta love'em - the good ones, the bad ones and even the embarrassing ones :)
DeleteGreat idea! Question - Have you heard of "The Coolidge Effect?"
ReplyDelete:-| ...guilty...s o m e t i m e s - ok, ok, but that's ok right? :) THANKS Steeevn, thanks for introducing to some and refreshing to others The Coolidge Effect :)
DeleteWell great idea but if u eat steak everyday for 30 days you will get tired or form a habit and jjust do it out of habit , I feel making love is something u can't plan if it happens and if it is only 5 or 6 times a month and it's great sex then that's a win , much better than everyday just cause!
ReplyDeletehttp://www.amazon.com/Mortons-The-Cookbook-Steakhouse-Recipes/dp/0307409465
DeleteI agree with Anonymous. The 30 Day Sex Diet sounds great on paper but steak every day gets so boring. I suppose you can try preparing it in different ways. But maybe switching dishes - lamb chops, fish, chicken - is a better idea. I prefer to vary my diet.
DeleteThis sounds like a good idea for people need to go on a diet! Burn calories while getting it in and not using a gym! I'm in great shape but this is a good challenge for my partner and I. I don't know if we would make it though lol.
ReplyDeleteTry thinking YES every time your mind tries to talk you out of something :) Plus if you go in with an idea of NO then it will be harder to sell your partner on the idea.
DeleteI could do it 30 times A DAY
ReplyDeleteThis I know :) I love me some mix tape!
DeleteThe most my girlfriend and I were able to do it was 14 times in one day...
Deleteand because of that knocking out 30 days will be just fine!
DeleteThis is a great idea for both the married/involved and the single.
ReplyDelete@Anonymous that used the steak comparison-
I don't think this is about making it "routine" or getting into a "habit" of 30 day consecutive sex; it's more about spicing up your life with whomever your partner is. If you put it in your mind that you HAVE to do this instead of WANTING to them you are bound to perform as if you are just going through the motions.
I'd go for different scenes and positions, bring in props, maybe even add a video camera (possibly with someone else holding the camera vs a tripod).
At the end of it all, it depends on how you go into the whole challenge.
Open minded or be mad because that someone has chosen to take the challenge with s o m e o n e else :(
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